It Had To Do With Her Bike Lock she TOLD Me She left it at My Pad - I Told Her She DID Not Leave It HERE ! she went on and on about it ! she did not leave it here - I Went And Got Her A New One she did not like it ( it was perfectly fine ) ! i also told Her to not Ride Her Bike at Night ! no light no head helmet and said it was Dangerous she said FU Rob ! its just little stuff But Geez............
First, it's sort of just little stuff. You don't have to be right, you can just let it go. She might be small in stature, but it sounds like you're telling her what to do like she's your kid. Sort of demeaning to an adult woman. So maybe it's better to tell her you're concerned that she isn't visible/doesn't have head protection when she's on her bike at night rather than telling her not to ride at night. And maybe ask her if she wants you to get her a new lock instead of just getting her one, especially if she's feeling like there's an argument going on.
I hope you're back to having fun with her. If not, give it a little time, it'll come around again.
but it sounds like you're telling her what to do like she's your kid <<not really judit I CARE About her and her safety ! i lost one of my best friends to a terrible bicycle accident
“What you're supposed to do when you don't like a thing is change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it. Don't complain.”
― Maya Angelou
don't ignore her if she's upset.. there's nothing worse than telling someone you're upset and them completely ignoring you (well, there totally is but you know what i mean lol).
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she is 5'3" thin AND Has a
she is 5'3" thin AND Has a Salty Mouth ! Spunkers F this F that etc.
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Tell her she is absolutely
Tell her she is absolutely correct. Burn one.
Voila`
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Damn.
Damn.
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Change her strain?
Change her strain?
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on the bright side, the worst
to look on the bright side, the worst the fight the better the make up sex.
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Why is she ticked
Why is she ticked
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5. Talk to her like an adult
5. Talk to her like an adult and ask her why she's pissed. Discuss the situation and see if a solution can be found.
But yeah, why is she pissed off at you? You started the thread, might as well spill the beans...
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You can go with Jav's suggestion, or...
6. Write her a note.
Do you forgive me?
□ Yes
□ No
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Do you love her ?
Do you love her ?
If yes, a bottle of wine with a silly apology card (it don't matter if you're right or wrong), maybe a surprise home cooked meal.
If not, count your blessings and move on.
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Drone strike? Seems to be the
Drone strike? Seems to be the rage these days.
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>Tell her she is absolutely
>Tell her she is absolutely correct. Burn one.<
and there ya go.
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What jaz and moses said.
What jaz and moses said.
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Tell her she's being
Tell her she's being emotional and she should calm down and relax.
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^ lol, good one.
^ lol, good one.
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Look out, kid
Look out, kid
It's somethin' you did
God knows when
But you're doin' it again
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Plf, I am happy to jump on a
Plf, I am happy to jump on a conference call with y'all to help mediate...
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Whatever you do, make sure
Whatever you do, make sure you tell her its what viva said to do. That'll smooth things over
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It Had To Do With Her Bike
It Had To Do With Her Bike Lock she TOLD Me She left it at My Pad - I Told Her She DID Not Leave It HERE ! she went on and on about it ! she did not leave it here - I Went And Got Her A New One she did not like it ( it was perfectly fine ) ! i also told Her to not Ride Her Bike at Night ! no light no head helmet and said it was Dangerous she said FU Rob ! its just little stuff But Geez............
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First, it's sort of just
First, it's sort of just little stuff. You don't have to be right, you can just let it go. She might be small in stature, but it sounds like you're telling her what to do like she's your kid. Sort of demeaning to an adult woman. So maybe it's better to tell her you're concerned that she isn't visible/doesn't have head protection when she's on her bike at night rather than telling her not to ride at night. And maybe ask her if she wants you to get her a new lock instead of just getting her one, especially if she's feeling like there's an argument going on.
I hope you're back to having fun with her. If not, give it a little time, it'll come around again.
And last, as said above, change your strain.
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but it sounds like you're
but it sounds like you're telling her what to do like she's your kid <<not really judit I CARE About her and her safety ! i lost one of my best friends to a terrible bicycle accident
we squabble a bit nothing too bad.
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You missed Judit's point Rob.
You missed Judit's point Rob. Read her post again.
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PMS?
PMS?
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i will Mark Thanks for your
i will Mark Thanks for your post Judit really
PMS << doctor more like MCycle ..
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:)
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Helmet, bicycle, naw I'm
Helmet, bicycle, naw I'm riding with Ana
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Get some onya ,Rob.
Get some onya ,Rob.
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PMS?
PMS?
^Rob is definitely bloated
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More to follow on this story
More to follow on this story Next Week ! watch out ! hoover stay tuned.
oh and thx dave
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Tell her she is absolutely
Tell her she is absolutely correct. <<<<
Stay Tuned T too.
yep
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PLF --
PLF --
My belief is that you and Ana should adopt a Pet Lobster, give it a cuute name and then steam / eat that Pet Lobster.
Get some Butter to melt for dipping.
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“What you're supposed to do when you don't like a thing is change it. If you can't change it, change the way you think about it. Don't complain.”
― Maya Angelou
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I have to see the pictures of
I have to see the pictures of both of you with the bicycle helmets on to make a fair call on this
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what judit said...
what judit said...
don't ignore her if she's upset.. there's nothing worse than telling someone you're upset and them completely ignoring you (well, there totally is but you know what i mean lol).
now kiss and make up :-)
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Hi sweetie scarlet. Good to
Hi sweetie scarlet. Good to see you.
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hi judit! good to be here :-)
hi judit! good to be here :-)