This is terrible news. Talk about breaking the mold when they made her.
What an icon. So generous. So down to earth. Just a joy. Promoting literacy for children, equal rights, damn, just so many great acts of kindness. So inspiring.
The world's a little less bright today. Maybe by reflecting on Dolly's incredible life, we can realize we ALL can do better.
Summertime, midmorning, and I’m sitting in the living room of what was then Jerry Garcia and Bob Hunter’s house, under the redwoods up a canyon in Larkspur, fifteen or twenty miles north of San Francisco, sitting there in an old easy chair reworking my notes on last night’s three sets at the Fillmore (“An Evening with the Grateful Dead,” the show is titled, and Jerry played all three sets, straight through from 8:30 until nearly 2:00 a.m., two sets with the Dead and one with their country-cousin stablemates, the New Riders of the Purple Sage, and will do the same tonight and again tomorrow night; yet while he’s playing, he looks as if he could happily go on forever). While I’m sitting there, Jerry, yawning and stretching and scratching like a freshly de-hibernated bear, is puttering around the stereo in search of a record by a vocalist he’s so far identified only as “my favorite girl singer,” and Jerry’s lady, Mountain Girl (a great, gorgeous creature, an Amazon’s Amazon, a Valkyrie with raven tresses, the sort of awesome Venus-of-Willendorf beauty who inspires me to pure press-agent flackery, the “160-pounds-of-eye-poppin’-pulchritude” school of prose)… ahem… and as I was saying, Mountain Girl is banging around in the kitchen fixing breakfast for me and Jerry and Hunter (who is right now standing in the doorway blinking myopically behind his enormous, sleep-frazzled Pecos Pete mustache), and Hunter’s lady, Christy, is out back playing with Jerry and MG’s two kids, and Jerry, dark eyes suddenly aglint behind his dandelion-yellow tinted glasses, hollers, “Eureka!” or “Aha!” or whatever and plunges his hand wrist-deep into a disordered stack of albums and comes up with… no, no, not Joplin, not Grace Slick, not Joni Mitchell or Joan Baez or Laura Nyro, not even Tina Turner or Big Mama Thornton, but … Dolly Parton?
Who’da thought it? Who would ever have supposed that the favorite girl singer of the spiritual leader of the Heaviest Rock-’n’-Roll Band in the Known World would turn out to be my favorite girl singer … Dolly Parton, the fairest wildflower that ever bloomed in Tennessee, the best female country vocalist since the prime of Kitty Wells? Far—how you say?—flung! Far fuckin’ flung!
Jerry’s at the turntable now, flipping switches and adjusting dials, blowing invisible dust off the record with French-maid fastidiousness, delicately plucking up the tone arm, catching it the way one might pick up a small but outraged serpent, with two fingers just at the base of the skull, gingerly almost to the point of reverence, and a moment later the room is filled with the exquisitely melancholic strains of Dolly Parton’s mourning-dove-with-a-broken-wing voice, keening:
In this mental insti-too-shun,
Looking out through these iron bars…
It’s her beautiful “Daddy, Come and Get Me,” about a girl whose husband has had her committed (“to get me out of his way”), and when Dolly comes to the lines “It’s not my mind that’s broken / It’s my heart,” Jerry Garcia, standing limned in soft morning sunlight before the arched front window, turns to me and—remember now, this is the Jerry Garcia, Captain Trips himself, the same Jerry Garcia who only twelve hours earlier utterly blew out three thousand of the most jaded, dope-devastated heads ever assembled even at the Fillmore (Dead fans are notorious in that regard)—that Jerry Garcia turns to me and clasps his hands to his breast and rolls his eyes after the goofy, gaga fashion of a lovesick swain and utters an ecstatic little moan and swoons into the nearest chair… and for the next half hour, while our breakfast turns cold in the kitchen, he and Hunter and I sit there in the living room tokin’ on a taste of Captain Trips’s morning pipe and groovin’ on Sweet Dolly’s bucolic threnodies about lost loves and dying lovers and stillborn babes, and by the time her last words (“O Robert! O Robert!”) fade into silence, there’s not a dry eye in the room…
Back in the 90's i was working at the Sunrise Musical Theater and i was touching up focus of the lights, which meant i was crawling across the truss over the stage, during her sound check, and she looks up and says ' oh my there is a big ole long haired rat in the grid ' and i said ' you calling me a rat ' and she laughed and when i was down on the stage later she says ' oh, you are a big ole long haired rat, but your cute '...
She had been missing a few appearances lately, so not too big a surprise.
I find it difficult to be too sad about this, as it's hard to imagine anyone living a better life than she did, and given her positive outlook on things I'd guess that she was OK/at peace with her end as well.
To paraphrase the Jackie Chiles character from Seinfeld, she was real and she was spectacular!
She held her old music partner Porter Wagoner's hand as he was dying. With her husband predeceasing her, wonder who was there for her? Loved her two Bluegrass records, The Grass Is Blue and Little Sparrow. Think I'll go fire one of those up,
Nice story, Dise. John Prine did the same thing for Todd Snider, just gave him back his rights.
This sucks, but it's been great that a certain someone has been pretty much knocked off the news today.
We've been treated to stories about love and joy and generosity. People feel good about remembering Dolly. It's brought us together. Even in death, she did us good.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: ParadiseWaits Dise
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 02:11 pm
This sucks :(
This sucks :(
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Ken D. Portland_ken
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 02:23 pm
A true American original.
A true American original. RIP.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: fishcane fishcane
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 02:37 pm
Post from family
Post from family
https://www.instagram.com/reel/DceNXgPJyZ9/?igsi=MW81NDI1ZnByZnJ1NQ==
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Strangha Slickrock
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 02:52 pm
This is terrible news. Talk
This is terrible news. Talk about breaking the mold when they made her.
What an icon. So generous. So down to earth. Just a joy. Promoting literacy for children, equal rights, damn, just so many great acts of kindness. So inspiring.
The world's a little less bright today. Maybe by reflecting on Dolly's incredible life, we can realize we ALL can do better.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Mice elf Bss
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 03:28 pm
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=qpcE6S95vso
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on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 03:37 pm
Such a beautiful spirit. Rest
Such a beautiful spirit. Rest in peace, Dolly.
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on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 04:01 pm
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Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: intentionally blank mikeedwardsetc
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 04:22 pm
Summertime, midmorning, and I
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: ParadiseWaits Dise
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 04:33 pm
Family
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Druba Noodler
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 04:54 pm
Tomorrow is Forever - Dead,
Tomorrow is Forever - Dead, Winterland Oct 19, 1974. Dolly cover;
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_FJMwAmV7vY
RIP to one of the kindest souls in the biz
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on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 05:11 pm
Back in the 90's i was
Back in the 90's i was working at the Sunrise Musical Theater and i was touching up focus of the lights, which meant i was crawling across the truss over the stage, during her sound check, and she looks up and says ' oh my there is a big ole long haired rat in the grid ' and i said ' you calling me a rat ' and she laughed and when i was down on the stage later she says ' oh, you are a big ole long haired rat, but your cute '...
what a treat to have that little interaction
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Roarshock Roarshock
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 05:33 pm
A beautiful lady.
A beautiful lady.
She is missed.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Capt. Optissimo 24/7 astro
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 05:35 pm
What a gal
What a gal


That photo strikes a chord for me, as for some years now I saw Miley as the next Dolly.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Sun so hot, clouds so low Trailhead
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 05:45 pm
She was one of a kind. Hope
She was one of a kind. Hope to hear a few tributes to her come Friday at the Outlaw festival.
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on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 05:45 pm
Might be my favorite thing
Might be my favorite thing dolly ever sang
pretty tough to rank them all
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=NepiRbfj-Io&ra=m
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on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 05:47 pm
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on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 07:39 pm
She had been missing a few
She had been missing a few appearances lately, so not too big a surprise.
I find it difficult to be too sad about this, as it's hard to imagine anyone living a better life than she did, and given her positive outlook on things I'd guess that she was OK/at peace with her end as well.
Good job Dolly.
On it goes.
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on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 07:43 pm
Much like Tommy John a few
Much like Tommy John a few weeks ago, I took the "health update" she offered last week as a goodbye so def not surprised
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on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 07:52 pm
Idk who it was that said:
Idk who it was that said:
"In a world full of Rhinestones she was a Diamond ".
I think that says it well.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Philzone Refugee Herbal Dave
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 09:07 pm
To paraphrase the Jackie
To paraphrase the Jackie Chiles character from Seinfeld, she was real and she was spectacular!
She held her old music partner Porter Wagoner's hand as he was dying. With her husband predeceasing her, wonder who was there for her? Loved her two Bluegrass records, The Grass Is Blue and Little Sparrow. Think I'll go fire one of those up,
R.I.P. and thank you.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: ParadiseWaits Dise
on Tuesday, August 25, 2026 – 10:03 pm
When Porter was down and out
When Porter was down and out Dolly bought his entire catalog. Years later he tried to buy it back from her, and she returned his rights for free.
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Strangha Slickrock
on Wednesday, August 26, 2026 – 12:08 am
Nice story, Dise. John Prine
Nice story, Dise. John Prine did the same thing for Todd Snider, just gave him back his rights.
This sucks, but it's been great that a certain someone has been pretty much knocked off the news today.
We've been treated to stories about love and joy and generosity. People feel good about remembering Dolly. It's brought us together. Even in death, she did us good.
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on Wednesday, August 26, 2026 – 10:55 am
Keep in mind that this also
Keep in mind that this also happened after he filed a lawsuit against her for leaving their show
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on Wednesday, August 26, 2026 – 02:01 pm
Thanks for the album recs,
Thanks for the album recs, Herbal!
Yep they sure did take the wrong 80yr old: RIP Tim Curry.
Fingers crossed on #3....
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on Thursday, August 27, 2026 – 05:28 pm
Looks like Dolly might be
Looks like Dolly might be making a comeback. Curious what happens next...
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Mice elf Bss
on Thursday, August 27, 2026 – 07:10 pm
Dolly and Kermit
Dolly and Kermit
Everyday People
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eojJTLf-mIo&ra=m
Top of Page Bottom of Page PermalinkFull Name: Druba Noodler
on Thursday, August 27, 2026 – 08:26 pm
Dolly does Dave Lettermans
Dolly does her top ten peeves on David Letterman
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CvaeUINhjQo